tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97117424991901100.post1751476020661144745..comments2023-06-01T08:53:53.341-07:00Comments on Misconceptions About Conception: Anxiety: what is "normal"?Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08872513410814268769noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97117424991901100.post-88069475939901048832011-08-18T09:07:23.474-07:002011-08-18T09:07:23.474-07:00Sorry, just seeing this now. As everyone else has ...Sorry, just seeing this now. As everyone else has said, the dream is totally normal. My theory is that after trying to get pg for so long, with disappointment month after month we become conditioned to expect the worst.Momasitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02687149140980965721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97117424991901100.post-33722453992240085082011-08-16T19:03:11.847-07:002011-08-16T19:03:11.847-07:00I'm sorry you have a cold ON TOP of nausea! No...I'm sorry you have a cold ON TOP of nausea! No fun at all to be sick while pregnant! I think it's pretty normal to have some anxieties along the way, especially being in this uncharted territory of twin pregnancy! I'm sure the NT test will be fine! Those babies are healthy & growing perfectly! Feel better soon!"Jay"https://www.blogger.com/profile/17519195747352626938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97117424991901100.post-87062564202931609482011-08-16T17:56:58.353-07:002011-08-16T17:56:58.353-07:00it is completely normal to feel worried...i wasn&#...it is completely normal to feel worried...i wasn't convinced that i was even going to have a baby until after the 19w scan. <br /><br />how exciting for you to be having two babies!threelittlekiloshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808185082307528332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97117424991901100.post-18680346279047840892011-08-16T14:56:42.664-07:002011-08-16T14:56:42.664-07:00Yucky yuck. My DH is not a worrier but he is an o...Yucky yuck. My DH is not a worrier but he is an obsess-er. Currently he obsesses about my diet (that I'm not eating enough in general and not enough protein/veggies) even though I feel like I'm eating a lot. After all, I've gained 8 lbs because unlike you, I haven't had any MS. I think the way to re-frame their worry/anxiety is to use it as a reminder that they're engaged michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08543567509350178647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97117424991901100.post-33866465434672944132011-08-16T13:35:41.669-07:002011-08-16T13:35:41.669-07:00Yeah, I think I worry more now than I used to. I w...Yeah, I think I worry more now than I used to. I wouldn't label myself as a worry wart, (then or now) but there is certainly a heightened level of awareness. And I think in a way having been a part of this community for so long can work against us - i.e. knowing too much... <br /><br />Sorry about the head cold - I hate colds during the summer especially!Melissa Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04150534738341942742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97117424991901100.post-18736296309245607862011-08-16T12:31:36.872-07:002011-08-16T12:31:36.872-07:00First you are a seasoned infertile, so the worryin...First you are a seasoned infertile, so the worrying comes from all the anxiety of getting preggers, staying preggers, having the dream of motherhood actually come true.<br /><br />Secondly, you have two growing, so the pains you are getting might be because your body is growing faster to accomodate both bebes.<br /><br />Hang in there. It's all normal. I still have the death dreams that wake My Vegashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02232402432779260397noreply@blogger.com